Hi! So... http://dating-for-married.net list. I'm admittedly highly skeptical about anything becoming of anything here, but my best friend has had some luck, so I figure who am I to discount possibilities? I've so far not had much luck, but... The Bay Area is a big place, so at the end of the day, I figure it is possible that someone cool, fairly laid back, with their life somewhat together is sitting around like I am and maybe they're single too. And hopefully they're in the realm of sane and have no restraining orders on them. I'll start off by telling you about me: I'm 26, 5'8, and in good shape/fit. I'm typically described as ''cute'' or ''pretty'', but ultimately that's your call. I have red hair, and with it the obligatory glow-in-the-dark pasty white skin that's just fantastic to go to the beach with. Also please note that I'm fairly sarcastic. I have a pretty big personality – I'm funny, intelligent, sarcastic, energetic, gregarious, and I talk a lot. Good or bad, it's a fact of life. I'm a good listener too, but I will talk your ear off if given the chance. I'm also kind of a dork, and I am a fairly big goofball. I can be calm, cool and classy, or I can make a complete fool of myself and not really have any problems with it. This is good because I'm admittedly a fairly big klutz, so if nothing else, I get plenty of practice. But I prefer to think of it as not taking myself too seriously, and also I enjoy seeing people smile. I went to college and graduated from UCSC. I have a car, a fulltime job, and I've lived all over the place, but “home” for me is the Bay Area, even though I'm not originally from here. I love playing volleyball , going to the movies, seeing live music, going to plays, hanging out with my friends, having bonfires on the beach, and trying out new restaurants. I love exploring places – whether they're nearby, the next city over, or across the world. I love to travel. I love to try new activities and discover new things I may be interested in. I love skiing and whitewater rafting. I'm not overly girly – I'm fairly a “jeans and tshirt” type of girl who wears flip flops whenever possible, but I do like going out and getting dressed up sometimes. I'm not really into the bar or club scene, but sometimes it's nice to just go out looking nice. A perfect weekend for me with someone would be dressing up and going out somewhere nice one night, and the next hanging out cuddled up on the couch, watching movies and eating take out. I also love ballroom dancing – socially, not competitively. I know several kinds, and am working on expanding my repertoire into other styles. Next up I think I want to learn Salsa, or maybe re-focus and improve my Swing. In general I'm a very happy person, I have a lot of interests, and a lot of great friends. I get along with nearly everyone, and I'm one of the most stable, even-keeled, easy going people I know. But at the end of the day I'm missing that one special person that would make everything just that much better. So what am I looking for? First of all, these are some of my “conditions”. Might as well put them up front so as not to waste anyone's time any more than I may have: - Must be single. Not married. Not even separated . Not in an open relationship. Not “in the process of breaking up”. Single. - Male - No outstanding warrants, histories of restraining orders, or other stalking tendencies or run-ins with the law - No smoking/drugs/heavy drinking - You don't have children - Mentally stable. This one might seem a bit insensitive, but I've had quite my fair share of drama and again – you never know what sort of people frequent sites like this, so please, if you have a history of a really strong temper, violence, are prone to being severely jealous or possessive, have been known to throw things, yell in public, are bipolar, tend to be really depressed, or are more than a little OCD... we just might not be right for eachother. - Aren't a racist or homophobic. Yes, I'm white and straight. But I respect people too much to be bothered with someone who doesn't. - Like animals. Big cliché I know. But it's important that you've had pets at some point or would like to. I'm not saying you have to own a zoo or want to, but it'd be nice if you liked them. My job involves animals, so it would be kind of awkward if you didn't appreciate them. I also like dogs and cats. I have no pets right now, but if all goes well, at some point in my life I might again like to have a dog and a cat, so it'd be nice if you would too. - Don't live with your mother. Things in life happen and at times we do move back home if need be, but if you're over 25 and have never lived away from home... Well there's a lot of growing and self-discovery that happens when you move out on your own. I'm not looking to be anyone's mother, and I'd prefer someone who's already made that leap. - Ultimately I'm looking for a long term relationship. I'm not looking for NSA or “friends with benefits” or a summer fling. I'm not rushing into anything, I would really just like to get to know someone and see what develops. Take things slow and a step at a time. Yes, this involves time and effort. But if the concept of long term commitment scares you, than you may be happier looking elsewhere. So if you've read this far and I haven't scared you off – here's what else I'm looking for: - Someone between the ages of 25-35. Race doesn't matter. Prefer taller than me if I'm to be picky. - In shape. I'm not saying you have to have washboard abs and herculean biceps, but I'm looking for someone who does work out occasionally and take care of themselves. Health is important, and let's be honest, so is physical attraction. I'd like someone “fit”, doesn't matter if you're skinny or average, ripped or not. Just prefer not overweight and someone who cares at least a little about how they look. - Not a vegetarian. Sorry, I like cheese and meat way too much. - Honest and trustworthy; loyal. Trust is really important in a relationship, and lies and secrets are just an inevitable waste of time and effort that eventually end up hurting people. I'm sure we've all been there or seen it vicariously. - Nice. If your friends would describe you as an asshole... maybe that's not the best thing. - Caring and compassionate. - Intelligent. I'm smart – not being arrogant, it's just true. Now a college degree doesn't necessarily prove intelligence, but I do find that in this area most average-above average people have degrees. What really matters though is that we can at times have more intelligent conversations. Maybe you have no degree but you know your stuff and can hold your own – well, that's awesome too. - Someone who has goals. Maybe they're personal, maybe they're career or education-related. But I think goals give our lives direction, and I personally am very goal oriented, so it would be nice if you too had ambition and were willing to put forth the effort to try to better yourself in some way. Growth is a continual process, and I think it's important that we're not just stagnating. - Have a job. You don't have to make over 100k/year, but let's face it, life costs money and I'm no millionaire, so some form of income would be nice. - Have friends. In a relationship I love spending a lot of time together, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have friends. Having friends I believe is also a mark of someone who's healthy. -Have interests. I like independent people, and consider myself fairly independent. So you have your hobbies/things you like. I've already told you what many of mine are. Maybe they overlap, maybe they're different. I think it's important that we do things we enjoy. In a relationship I have no problem sharing in your interests, even if they aren't mine, as long as you're willing to do the same. Besides, isn't that kind of the point? Wow, you finished it. Either you're really bored, or potentially interested. Either way, thanks for reading : ) As I warned you – I talk a lot, which translates even into being long-winded while writing. But if you're still interested, shoot me an email. Maybe we can chat, or meet up for lunch or something. In your subject heading please tell me what your favorite color is so I know you're not a bot. Send me a pic of you , and I'll reciprocate. : )
Dating lots of married men can open up a new world for a single woman.>>LTR not FWB! 33yr (Titusville, Pennsylvania )
Looking for friends first then more if we click. I am currently married but seperated but plan on filing for divorce. I am BBW so if thats an issue please pass my ad and good luck, if not please read on. I have no children but want them. I have a job my own place and working on a car but soon I hope. I am looking for someone who has most of his things together or atleast the ambition to go after what they want .420 friendly, smoke occasionally working on quitting. I love to laugh and make people laugh. Like to go out not necessarily to the bar but it is summer and I love those summer nights. If I caught your interest please reply. Pic for Pic No Pic No Reply
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
Attached woman looking for attached man- for friendship and more. Please be good-looking, discreet, professional, smart and open to something fun. If you have a pic, please send one with a description of what you are looking for. Looking forward to hearing from you.
MATURE BLACK FEMALE SEEKS A PARTNER WHO IS READY! 53yr (16354, Titusville, PA)
I’m single, physically fit, mature black female who at this stage of her life is seeking that someone special. He should be in the age range of 50 to 63, physically fit , lean, runner’s physique is an asset! If you are the one, less us travel together, eat dinner at each other place, spoil, love and pamper each other! Race is unimportant but you should be over 5’7”, with a positive demeanor, decisive nature, humorous, intelligent, love to travel, no drama or baggage, witty, respectful, down to earth, not self centered, have you own transportation and your own place, good listener, versatile, worldly, be able to plan things for us, spontaneous, passionate and affectionate , love the arts, spiritual, giving and most importantly YOU SHOULD WANT TO BE IN A ONE ON ONE RELATIONSHIP!! We can exchange photos. I will only respond to those who send photos. I feel we both have to be mutually attracted to one another! If we are, let’s start out by having coffee together! I look forward to communicating with you! Thanks so much, I know you’re out there, could it be you? P.S. You men who are on the “rebound” from past marriages, girlfriends, or “kind of/sort of “looking, or just kind of fishing -- don’t waste my time!
Sick of the single life 20yr (Titusville, 16354 , Crawford County)
ok so here it goes... I'll be 20 in july. kind of sick of being single. looking for someone who is dating for married outgoing and not a jerk. i'm a christian and have morals, and those won't change for anyone... No older than 23 Please. Besides that-Im pretty open
MILF seeks DILF (Titusville, 16354, PA )
Pretty, slender, busty, petite WF early 40, very intelligent, sweet & milfs seeking handsome, smart, romantic sexy, funny, successful WM 40-55. I enjoy movies, good food, great conversation, etc. In spite of the title, I am not looking for someone to hook up with. Sex is easy, true love is hard to find. I'm a very special, unusual woman looking for an extraordinary guy. Please send a note telling me about yourself and a recent photo, thanks.
The first tip you must understand when dating a married woman is proper time management. If you don't manage your time with her the right way, you will blow this whole situation, point blank.>>
someone feels the need to keep flagging my post.....i really wish you would find someone else to bother.......to all others please read on..... 26 year old VOLUPTUOUS beauty ISO awesomeness. I'd love to go on and on, but then we'd have a boring first date...and no one wants that, right? look forward to hearing from you all not a bot, yes i have pics to trade...yours gets mine, and no i'm NOT a ''working girl''
Single - baggage okay 22yr (16354, Titusville, Pennsylvania)
Hey, guys! Hope you're having a great day. I'm a swf, age 27. I have brown hair and gray eyes, and I'm fit. I enjoy working out with a gym buddy, whether we're running, jogging or on machines. Also love being in the dating for married I don't smoke, hope you don't either - I won't refuse to date a smoker though. Want to get together for drinks and chat, write me. Pic for pic.