I see this question posted with some regularity in the personals section, so I thought I'd take a minute to explain things to the ladies out there that haven't figured it out. What happened to all the nice guys? The answer is simple: you did. See, if you think back, really hard, you might vaguely remember a Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. He'd tag along with you when you went shopping, stop by your place for a movie when you were lonely but didn't feel like going out, or even sit there and hold you while you sobbed and told him about how horribly the guy that you were fucking treated you. At the time, you probably joked with your girlfriends about how he was a little puppy dog, always following you around, trying to do things to get you to pay attention to him. They probably teased you because they thought he had a crush on you. Given that his behavior was, admittedly, a little pathetic, you vehemently denied having any romantic feelings for him, and buttressed your position by claiming that you were ''just friends.'' Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease. Eventually, your Platonic buddy drifted away, as your relationship with the boyfriend got more serious and spending time with this other guy was, admittedly, a little weird, if you werent dating him. More time passed, and the boyfriend eventually cheated on you, or became boring, or you realized that the things that attracted you to him weren't the kinds of things that make for a good, long-term relationship. So, now, you're single again, and after having tried the bar scene for several months having only encountered players and douche bags, you wonder, ''What happened to all the nice guys?'' Well, once again, you did. You ignored the nice guy. You used him for emotional intimacy without reciprocating, in kind, with physical intimacy. You laughed at his consideration and resented his devotion. You valued the aloof boyfriend more than the attentive ''just-a-'' friend. Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be. Fact is, now, he's probably getting laid, and in a way, your ultimate rejection of him is to thank for that. And I'm sorry that it took the complete absence of ''nice guys'' in your life for you to realize that you missed them and wanted them. Most women will only have a handful of nice guys stumble into their lives, if that. So, if you're looking for a nice guy, here's what you do: 1.) Build a time machine. 2.) Go back a few years and pull your head out of your ass. 3.) Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab ahold of it. I suppose the other possibility is that you STILL don't really want a nice guy, but you feel the social pressure to at least appear to have matured beyond your infantile taste in men. In which case, you might be in luck, because the nice guy you claim to want has, in reality, shed his nice guy mantle and is out there looking to unleash his cynicism and resentment onto someone just like you. If you were five years younger. So, please: either stop misrepresenting what you want, or own up to the fact that you've fucked yourself over. You're getting older, after all. It's time to excise the bullshit and deal with reality. You didn't want a nice guy then, and he certainly doesn't fucking want you, now. Also, if you are serious about finding someone, you should include your photo in your ad. We already know what sunsets look like... Sincerely, A Nice Guy
There have been lots of dating websites for single people, but today married online dating sites are rising in popularity. These types of websites serve married couples and individuals looking for flirting, sexual encounters, married affairs, or intimate friendships.>>heyyyy :D 20yr (73521, OK, Jackson County)
looking for a guy to start off as friends then possibly later have a relationship with. i'm not into the whole ''finding someone at the club'' scene, so i'm trying this out :) i like my men tall, nice smile, healthy, and confident NOT cocky. sorry, but i'm not really into blacks or asians, but there are plenty other girls out there for ya! :) my picture is not up there because i really don't want to get creepy messages lol anyways yeah, hit me up if you want to know more, i'm a cool, down to earth girl, so don't be shy! have a nice day!
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
I'm searching for that man that's ready for a relationship. Someone that is real, honest, affectionate, loyal, funny and can treat a lady as his Queen. I am not looking to hook up or a one night stand. I am looking for someone I can share special moments with. My birthday is coming up soon and it would be nice to have someone to spend it with this year. I am intelligent, outgoing, creative, funny, adventurous, trustworthy, and honest. I have a generous heart and warm smile and i am an excellent cook. I love to go out and have fun, bowling, trying new restaurants or museums, playing pool, etc. Physically I am around a size 18 and 5'6, black hair, brown eyes, caramel complexion. I usually go for men that are at least 5'8 slim to medium build, Black or Hispanic and between the ages of 24-36, handsome & well groomed, someone stable in life, loves to laugh and to try different activities, a gentlemen, drug & disease free, drama free, and it wouldn't hurt if you were well endowed either. lol please be serious about meeting. send a pic and tell me something about yourself.
sensual dinner companion seeks businessman 38yr (73521, Altus, OK)
Very attractive and outgoing woman seeks an interested gentleman who would like to meet someone to spend time with when he is in Manhattan. Blond, tall, well built and well educated with a down to earth yet classy outlook is how I have been described. I am looking for the classy, well dressed gentleman who enjoys fine dining and expects the same in the lady he is with. Good looking and good manners is even better. An intelligent gentleman with good intentions who is looking for an intelligent woman with her best foot forward is the type of man I enjoy getting ready to spend an evening with. An ongoing relationship is ideal and you should have the confidence and patience to know how to make that happen. A strong gentleman with a gentle hand and good heart, between 45-65 years old, please.
bored off my ass 26yr (73521, Altus, OK, Jackson County)
im 5 months pregnant and want to hang out with someone to pass the time. anyone want to hang out dating for married email me - I dont have anything to do
Home For the Summer 20yr (Altus, 73521, OK )
So, here goes nothing.... I'm milfs from college for the summer, and seeing as most of my friends run on the quarter system, they won't be home for several weeks. After sleeping in until 11 at least every day for a week, I'm starting to realize that I'm bored out of my mind. I'm not entirely sure what I'm looking for. A partner in crime. A friend. Someone to joke and laugh with, have dinner with and go on random adventures with. It could be anything from a purely platonic relationship, to a casual dating relationship, to even a ''benefactor'' relationship. I haven't really gotten to pursue the last two, so I'm open-minded about both. A little about me, I'm generally intelligent, a little goofy, mature, easy going and simple in the sense that it doesn't take a whole lot to make me happy. I'm a fairly natural tomboy who has a few upkeep quirks and I love the outdoors. However, being natural doesn't mean being ugly. I'm ''exotic looking'', tall and in VERY good shape as a water and adrenaline junkie who can tell you about anything from the politics of free-trade coffee to the life of Beethoven and his musical influences, to the difference between the Army and the Marine Corps and the upcoming summer and fall fashions for both women and men for the year. My parents made sure I was educated very well in as many different ways as possible, and I try to keep up with that as a college student. Hopefully you, if there's to be some attraction are a tall , white male, who's in shape ), easy going, drama free, intelligent and fun to be around. If you're not into non-white women, we probably won't get along. However, if you do like athletic models who can party harder than you, but still clean up well enough for brunch with your mom and dad the next morning, we probably will get along. If I pique your interest, please let me know. Just email me with a header that makes a reference to something within this posting. Can't wait to hear from you and have a beautiful weekend!
Are you currently dating a married woman? Is this your first time or are you experienced when it comes to dating another man's wife? Whatever the case may be, you must know the basic rules and regulations when it comes to dating a married woman.>>Man to Order! For Here Please! :) 46yr (73521, Altus, Oklahoma)
Yes its true! Below is my man order for here please! No substitutions! I have posted here before and I am tired of the games and the players! So I decided to make a simple order with my top 10 MUST HAVES!! & Below it is what you will get in return! 1. Christian Spiritual, good morals, open minded, accepting of others, non-judgmental, dancing and tattoos are okay, rare occasion drinker, and not a racist. Goes to church sometimes. Likes Joel Osteen. 2. Non-Smoker 3. Emotionally Healthy dating for married Emotionally Availavle No abusers, control freaks, or psychos. 4. Physically Healthy not real skinny and not fat, likes to exercise and eat right, but occasional splurge is okay. 5. Ready for a LTR ready to fall in love and looking for a life partner. No bootie calls, no FWB, you like sexy, but no crazy sex stuff! No pen pals. 6. Single 100% divorced. Healed and happy. And NO girlfriend and NO wife!! 7. Age between 38 50 no exceptions and must 5 10 or taller. 8. Intelligent, confident, compassionate, easygoing, outgoing, fun, people person, positive, likes to talk and listen, physically and emotionally affectionate, attentive and respects women. Lover, not a controller or a fighter. 9. Kids older kids are okay ages 13 and up shared custody. 10. Live with-in 50 miles from me. Would want to meet soon. What you will get in return: 1. Christian Spiritual, good morals, open minded, accepting of others, non-judgmental, I like to dance and I have two tattoos, am a rare occasion drinker, and I am not a racist. I attend church sometimes and love Joel Osteen. 2. Non-Smoker 3. Physically Healthy I am slender, 56, I like to exercise regularly and eat right, but occasionally I will splurge. I love the outdoors, beaches, lakes, movies etc. 4. Ready for a LTR I am ready to fall in love! Looking for a life partner! No bootie calls, no FWB, I like sexy, but no crazy sex stuff! No pen pals. 5. Single divorced for two years. I am healed, happy and emotionally healthy. White. 6. Age - 46 7. Intelligent, college educated, confident, compassionate, easygoing, outgoing, fun, positive, people person, likes to talk and listen, physically and emotionally affectionate, attentive and respects men. Lover not a fighter. 8. Kids I have two grown sons age 19 & 23 with the youngest still living with me and I cant have any more. 9. I live north east of McKinney past Princeton. Your nice email and picture gets a nice reply and more pics of me. If we click, I dont mind a few texts & IMs, along with a few first phone calls to see if we hit it off. If we do, I would want to meet in person as soon as possible. Thank you! Look forward to hearing from you soon! P.S. If I do not reply right away, please know it is NOT because I am NOT interested. I am a very busy woman that does not spend all her time in front of the computer.
Just looking 19yr (Altus, 73521 , Jackson County)
I want to find someone who believes in what I believe in. I want somebody who is willing to go to church with me. I want somebody who can be my best friend who can break down this wall I have guarding my heart. Somebody who will go out with my friends and family, Family is number one to me. Somebody who is like my dad who can tell me the truth and who isnt afraid of hurting my feelings. Somebody who likes the outdoors and loves water sports. I want somebody who has a car and a job. I wont settle for less. So If you dating for married you are this send me a picture. And your info: Name: Age: Religious: Location: Favorite Music: My age group is 18- 26 wont go any older dont write back if your older I wont respond with out this info or a picture