Why does this have to be so complicated? Seeking college graduate, well endowed, single,clean black man, 35-45 for an LTR leading to marriage. Preferably he has his own place, a car is a bonus. A passport is even better. Me? Single, no kids, college graduate... waiting for a man like you.... Everyone says they are tired of the games, but are you really willing to commit to a relationship and start a family? If you feel you would be a good match... I encourage you to reply with a face picture ........let's start enjoying the summer...
Before we get into where to look, you may be wondering why dating married women is better than, for instance, single women. Simple. Married women have less men approaching them and, unlike single women, they all want casual encounters without any commitment.>>Not looking to get married, ever! :) 27yr (13676, Potsdam, NY, Saint Lawrence County)
**POST WAS FLAGGED BUT I AM SERIOUS** I would like to find someone fun/chill to hang out with and do just about anything with, whether it be traveling, going to movies, working out, staying in watching tv, or just to have dinner. I guess more so looking for a great friend, best friend even. I hope to find someone on my same page, who understands the type of situation I'm looking for . Open to a great relationship, but it seems very difficult these days. I am fun, have my head on straight, work out often, cute, independent, and is into sports!! Let me know if you would like to know more, this is REAL and I am SERIOUS. Please send a picture and hopefully something good will come of it :)
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
The http://dating-for-married.net list community at large seems pretty chill, so I hope I can find some car guys on here too. :) Cars are my career path and I am a trained mechanic, though I rarely turn a wrench on anything but my own stuff. I'm very active in several local car clubs and love every minute of it. I'm an independent girl, I have my own apartment and my own vehicle...and my own money . My hobbies include reading voraciously, volunteering, driving, walking/hiking, and horseback riding when I can afford it. And just to get it out of the way, I don't hook up. That's not to say I'm a prude, but being as we're going to start out friends, I'd rather save those discussions for another time. Though I'm active in my clubs there are very few unattached people my age to talk with, so I'm hoping to connect through other social media and see how it goes. The things I would like most to take away from posting here are good experiences and good friends. The last man I met through http://dating-for-married.net list was heavy into rallying and had some interesting stories to tell, and I thoroughly enjoyed my evening with him even though we didn't hit it off romantically. Me in a nutshell: • 5'5'', reddish-brown hair, hazel eyes • HWP • Single • No children, though I do like them. • No ex drama. My exes and I are on good and respectful terms. They are wonderful people, it just didn't work out between us. • No BS. I work with men on a regular basis and I try to keep female head-games to a minimum. • Good conversationalist and OK listener . • Into European and American sports and luxury cars. I've been 4-wheeling and like it, but don't know much about the sport of 4x4'ing. You: • 23-30 • Also single • Financially responsible • Own transportation • Social drinker OK • Non-smoker • No 420, legit medical card and usage may be ok. • No recreational controlled substance use or abuse, that's a slippery slope and one I want no part of. • Present yourself well. • Preferablyunder 6'2'' and HWP as I am. That's not hating on all you kickass solid or large men out there, some of the cars I drive are entry-restricted and if you're any taller/wider than average it can be nigh on impossible to shoehorn yourself into them. • Average to good-looking is OK. I'm not Scarlet Johansson and I don't expect you to be an underwear model, I just want to meet someone cool. If you're still reading and think we might make OK company, then send me an e-mail. If nothing else, I can guarantee a meeting will be time well wasted. And no worries, I'm real and by all accounts pretty cute. I have recent pics to share and a Facebook page, your pic gets mine. Please include something from this ad in the subject line of your email so I can filter any spam. I hope you have a wonderful day even if I'm not what you're looking for. Thanks for your time!
SAF for SWM 27yr (13676, Potsdam, New York)
Looking for someone to hangout with or go on a date with. I need more excitement in my life. I'm fillipino 5'4'' and cute. Please respond with a pic and I will send you one back. I prefer tall white guys , and who are cute and fun. Please don't respond if you do drugs. Hope to meet someone soon!
The Dating Scene 21yr (Potsdam, New York )
I've only been single for about two months, and as much as I love the freedom I miss the companionship. Don't get me wrong, I don't want a serious relationship anytime soon, but I would love to try this whole dating scene and see how it goes :) A little about me - I'm a college student here in the city, and I work as well. I'm very ambitious, passionate, creative, and outgoing. I'm 21 years old, but I don't really go to bars or clubs for fun. I enjoy hiking, working out, dancing, photography, FOOD , baking... So many things! I am pretty random and open-minded, a true lover of the earth and a hippie at heart. The guys I'm into tend to be the dark, handsome types - I love the ethnic boys and the those who are mixed. I'm a big mixture myself, and I enjoy learning about new cultures and eating new food! I'm not really into older guys, but I am not into boys either. I like men who are successful, have their own place, and are stable in life to enjoy spending time with someone. As for the bedroom - I am quite the catch and love to go for hours on end. I have a pretty high libido, and I'm warning you now that sex is important to me. Because of my busy schedule, and the fact that dating for married don't go out much, I am hoping to find someone on here. Again, not really looking for anything serious, but more of an casual relationship and someone I could just hang out with without the seriousness of going steady involved. And if things do change than so be it, I'm open to life and to love. So, with all this being said, where would you take me on a date?
decide for yourself 24yr (Potsdam, 13676 , Saint Lawrence County)
DO NOT MESSAGE ME IF YOU ARE: married/swinger/bi/in a relationship/over 34 yrs .
Yes, what I'm about to explain is a complete oxymoron. I'm looking for someone, but not RIGHT now. See, I'm a single mom of one, I work to keep everything stable, but with all the crazy business, I let myself go. No not in the sense of being 300+ lbs. No offense to the big girls out there but I would've gave up on myself if I ever let myself get to that point. Anywho, I'm focused on me for the time being but I do want someone there who just understands that if they just give me a few months but in those few months get to know me and stay interested, they're going to gain someone who was worth waiting for.
I really want to be in a ltr but I want to be fully ready and when I am, I want to be able to turn around and have that someone there. Someone who understood my viewpoint to keep things fair for them. I'm no gold digger, I make my own. I love to be around family and friends. I have a life outside of CL but it seems like no one truly gets me. I'm a smartass dork with a very good heart. I say that with sincerity. NO BABY DADDY DRAMA GAURENTEED. I'm down to earth, I can't stand drama, it's for the birds.
I'm honest. With that honesty, I do prefer taller men , stocky/heavy, with dark hair and eyes, and I'm not racist but I like my white and latino men mostly and primarily. But I am open to anyone who can catch and keep my attention. And let's be real, if you don't have your shit together and don't plan to, please don't message me. milfs just annoy and aggravate me.
Now, if we do hit it off and say we hang out together and so on, I love to cuddle, I like to be indoors and outdoors alike. But, understand that I do want to improve myself before making any commitment for the benefit of US.
So if you are of understanding, please feel free to message me.
Do you think it is okay for a single person to date someone who is married? I’m thinking of the whole Rielle Hunter - John Edwards affair. I’m a divorced woman in my late 30s, and I would NEVER date or screw a married man. >>What should I do to get your attention? 22yr (Potsdam, New York )
Hey, I arrived in NYC 2weeks ago to be with my boyfriend, but like you can guess, we broke up as soon as I arrived here. Yes, that really sucks. I don't know anyone in NYC so there is nothing I can do but crying. That's why I am here, on CL! Who knew that I would use this site to meet guys? Whatever. We are all here. I am not looking for anything serious right now. But, I am not dating for married for one night stand kinda stuff either. Lets just hang out and lets see how it goes. No one knows what will happen! I am Asian , 22, have curves fun to be around, sexy and cute! You will see :P I am not picky but please be around my age and attach pic or two so that I know you are real Thanks and hope to hear from you soon :)
I don't think you're ready for this jelly 37yr (13676, NY, Saint Lawrence County)
...nor for my intellectual power, my moral fiber, or my rapier wit. But I'm happy to be dating for married wrong. Go ahead, give it your best shot. Can you put me in my place during a political debate? Will you impress me by keeping your promises, confronting your fears, and getting your priorities straight? Can you make me laugh harder than Chris Rock ranting about the big piece of chicken or Stephen Colbert singing in Korean? Are you down with tan skin, kinky hair, and, as mentioned before, Beyonce-level ''jelly''? If so, say hey. If not, your loss.