So this is my first week in this accounting class and I think chinese might be easier to learn. I thought it might be a good idea to spark up some conversation with someone who might be able to help me understand.
Many men are looking for these women for encounters but it is not an easy road especially if you are trying to be discreet about dating married women.>>Bad boy with a kind heart 57yr (Massapequa, 11758 , Nassau County)
Looking for a Bad Boy....who is true to himself, lives from his heart and is a Big Old Teddy Bear. Must like animals, kids and old ladies.
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
The original responder said it very well and I have to add on here a bit The way most woman are is that they want a bad guy. A Naughty guy that they can clean up and think they can mold into what they want. The problem is that the bad / naughty guy who they are attracted to, may not want to change. In the end, they get burned and the woman ends up look around going: Where are all the nice guys? When you have a nice guy, most woman wil treat him like crap. Regardless of if you are dating him or just friends. He treats you with respect and that is something that most ladies claim they want, but when they get it, they crush it like a bug. He would open the door for you and you would make a sharp comment on how you are not weak and can take care of yourself. He would cook you dinner and you would comment about how ''trainable'' he is to your girlfriends or say that infront of him, instead of being thankful. He would send you flowers for no reason and you would not even get him any. You would go to your mail box and get a simple card from him, but did you ever send him a card for no reason? You would spend hours at the gym so that you look good and then you would put him down for being so vain if he did the same. He would dress up very nice for you and you would comment that he must be trying to impress his other girlfriends. Are you seeing the pattern here? If he was a male friend or your boyfriend, he was never enough for you. You wanted to go hang out at all the fancy places on his dime. You would want to be seen at all the hot locations. You would use him to fend off any males that did not get you all excited or aroused. Then you would tell him to get lost when you had a hot guy looking your way. ''Besides, he totally wasn't your type. I mean, he was a little too short, or too bald, or too fat, or too poor, or didn't know how to dress himself, or basically be or do any of the things that your tall, good-looking, fit, rich, stylish boyfriend at the time pulled off with such ease.'' That statement is so true. So many ladies are looking for the stereotype image of what a perfect man or woman is. The reality is that they do not exist except in your mind and in romance novel / movies. If you are dating a nice guy, either you or your children treated him like crap. You would brush off his needs for your own and put him down for sharing his thoughts, emotions and desires. You called him whimp, weak, degraded him or any of the above and more. You let your children treat him with disrespect. You would let your children destroy his property and not do anything about it. He would try to be a good role model and when you would not stand your ground as a parent, he would try to back you and be a good step parent, only to have you leave him hanging out to dry in the wind. Your kids would milk him dry financially , emotionally and even physically, and you would do nothing to prevent it. It saved you the effort of being a parent and saved you money. ''Eventually, he took the hint and moved on with his life. He probably came to realize, one day, that women aren't really attracted to guys who hold doors open; or make dinners just because; or buy you a Christmas gift that you mentioned, in passing, that you really wanted five months ago; or listen when you're upset; or hold you when you cry. He came to realize that, if he wanted a woman like you, he'd have to act more like the boyfriend that you had. He probably cleaned up his look, started making some money, and generally acted like more of an asshole than he ever wanted to be.'' This is so true. It is easy for a good guy to get fed up and change his ways. He will not call you to listen to your drama filled life. He will focus on many the extra money and taking of his needs, desires and dreams. He will not hold the door for a lady, he will get in the car first and then open it from the inside, stop cooking for you, not buy you flowers for no reason, toss out the romantic cards that he got to surprise you with. If you want a nice guy, then you need to do the following: Pull your head out of your ass. Take a look at what's right in front of you and grab a hold of it. Also, if you are serious about finding someone, you should include your photo in your ad. We already know what sunsets look like... That is soo true. If you have to hide your pic, then you better be ready for reject. Why? If a guy does write and you think he is good looking, he may not feel the same way about how you look. It would be wiser to place a pic of yourself out there and get only email from those who are actually interested in meeting you and who DO find you attractive. That still does not mean that you can not get his pic and say no, but at least you are the one saying no instead of him not responding because you are not what he is looking for. Sincerely, Another Nice Guy
Looking for friends and maybe something else 27yr (11758, Massapequa, New York)
Hello, First of all, thank you for taking the time to read my post. I am a 27 y/o cute Mexican woman looking for new friends and possibly something else. I am an educated woman, I enjoy my job, spending time with my family and friends, and just life. I am looking for someone that is educated as well, that is drama free and has a sense of humor. I enjoy a good movie, fine food, dancing, reading, etc etc. I hope I get to hear back from you soon!
a date. 21yr (11758, NY, Nassau County)
I would like to go on a date and not have to worry about how its going to go, just know that it will be a good time with no expectations towards the end of the night. Whether it be dinner, lunch, or even breakfast I just want to be treated like a lady by a nice gentleman, nothing serious for the moment. If this sounds appealing to take a dating for married out who is getting her degree in business, plays soccer, loves to travel, has a good sense of humor, and is not bad looking, let me know and we can set something up for next week. Give me an idea of what you have in mind for a date and what you think makes you stand out from the rest.
Sa sa summer time 35yr (Massapequa, New York , Long Island)
Summer is upon us! I am looking for someone to share my summer adventures. I am looking for someone who has a strong personality, a sarcastic sense of humor and a gleam in his eyes. Age/race and body type does not matter as long as there is chemistry. This summer, I would like someone to go camping, tubing, vegas, san diego, spa milfs etc... I am 35, profesional, sane, unique, gregarious and witty. I also like video games and if you are hot I will let you play with my boobies :) Please no Trolls, Tokers or Tools... Well I guess Tokers are ok but I don't dont participate.
Being married and looking at dating websites may seem a bit weird but in our century it looks pretty normal. Of course, you can do whatever you want, nobody blames you.>>Normal, educated, and loves to be appreciated - w4m 30yr (Massapequa, New York , Long Island)
Are there any normal guys out dating for married who are educated and just love to be appreciated?
A Philly Queen looking for love on another level and meet you (11758, Massapequa, NY, Nassau County)
Hi I'm 24 thick brown skin bubby cute kind smart and a sweetheart I look good smell good and talk about about anything looking for a non shallow cutie who is inpendent Not a golddigger I'm been used and got my heart broken. Many times over and I'm tired of it !I'm a queen and if u want love me like 1 hit me up ur pic gets mine. Race uniporant just be cool as hell Ps please do be a creep killer or looking for sex I'm not that type of girl But u get MAJOR POINTS IF U LIKE dating for married Cuddle Talk on the phone Is serious about being meeting and dating with a sexi black girl Put favrite song. And dream date to weed spam and bs