Hi, I read over this section, to get an idea of what I would be up against. HA! Gotta love CL. Well, I too am a black female. I also consider myself to be quiet intelligent. I read, I dance....blah blah blah! So, for the summer I am looking for a guy 34 and up, race not an issue. Gotta love the beach. And enjoy caring for girls. Not like a Sugar Daddy, but the reg chivalry stuff. Like dinner, a soda..maaaaaybe a movie.....lol I'm looking to have a casual relationship. Already tried casual dating. A lil too hands off for me. I like me time, but when we hang out AND meet for some rockin physical....could it also be because we think the other is pretty damn cool?? Oh..wait wait wait....I need a pic too, there is a headless one of me below. And noooo I won't send a head shot. Feel free to send me a decapitated as well. Cheers!!
I have been dating a married woman for seven months. We are together continously such as during lunch at work, after work until 8 or 10pm at night and on the weekends. Sometimes we go out of town together and she tells her husband she is leaving for work reasons. Sometimes I am with her, her husband and family on the weekends. Her husband must know but he never asks.>>Help? 36yr (8902, North Brunswick, New Jersey)
Hi there not sure why or wht im doing on here.. recently seperated.... husband gone empty house sadness overwhelming any tips or a kind person to chat with thats been through this?
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
Hello: I would love to connect with one ''great guy'', who is open to exploring life's possibilities, with intentions on building a lasting relationship. It's all about chemistry .I am attracted to a male that is intelligent, kindhearted, grounded and genuine. Sense of humor...priceless! My life is relatively calm, uncomplicated, and fun! Life is good. My cup is half-full...yours? My stats are: 5'3'' Tall, Slim, Youthful Appearance, Classy, Nonsmoker, Divorced, Former Business Owner/ Retired, Own Home In Northern Westchester County, Non-Religious Jewish. Penchant for: Great Dining, Theatre, Movies, Live Concerts, Outdoor Activities, Weekend Getaways, METS! Personality: Upbeat, Ebullient, Cerebral and Sensitive. I appreciate directness, and have a strong sense of justice and fairness. My counterpart would be Nonsmoker, Not married/Attached, Physically Fit, Clean-cut,Reasonably Tall, Animal Friendly. Photo exchange welcomed. Serious replies, only. Age Appropriate. Please be over 50 years old. If this piques your interest, let communication begin.... Judi
A real women looking for a genuine man! 30yr (North Brunswick, 8902 , Middlesex County)
Well I could put something clever and woo you with a personal ad but I'm not going to! I could also tell you that I'm intelligent, witty, educated, etc but then I always think when I see this ''if your truly intelligent you dont need to tell people, it will be known''. So basically put I'm looking to start something and see where it could lead. I'm not expecting the sun, moon and stars because that is not me, I'm pretty down to earth and live in the moment not in the clouds. I don't play games and see no need for them, frankly I'm to old to play the cat and mouse. I was raised with old school values and morals, hell my parents have been married for 30+ years so I have picked up some lessons watching them over the years and know what it takes to make something work for the long haul. As much as I hate to do it I'm going to say it....yes I'm very active. Yeah I know everyone says it but when it comes down to it there couch potatoes. Well I'm actually active and I live the saying ''the proof is in the pudding''! I also live by ''shit or get off the pot'' meaning I do not let grass grow under my feet, I do not him and haw over a descion. I know what I want and I make it happen in life! Does this mean I'm looking to jump into something quick, nope I wanna get to know someone. Ideally what I want is to grow with someone, build a future, etc. You know the genuine things that relationships are made of. I do not want a booty call, a kissing freind or a one nighter. Those things have never been me and I'm worth more than that. What I like in a man is loyalty, compassion, strength, humble, some sarcasm, ambition, and doesnt care what others think . I prefer white men around my age. I'm a real women looking for a real man, I'm not picky and not judgemental. If your interested please send me an email and feel free to ask me any questions, I'm pretty open about who I'am.
Unpretentious, Yet Culturally Aware Minx Seeks Charming Man About Town 47yr (North Brunswick, New Jersey )
Hey there, I'm looking for a partner to go out and explore the world with. I've a penchant for the off-beat and iconoclastic, so if that sort of thing grooves you, all the better. Here are three recent outings I went on that encapsulate the sorts of events I'm attracted to and if they strike your fancy, then keep reading: attending Playwright David Mamet's interview by Ricky Jay for the sheer wit of it; taking quirky classes at the Machine Project in Echo Park, from building a musical oscillating instrument to a hand-cranked toy horse , and hanging out at La Descarga for its entrancing environment, complete with Latin jazz and burlesque! Other interests include web surfing, running, reading, cooking, wine tasting, and films. Okay, so I have ecclectic interests. I'm a 47 year old Latina with plenty of moxie to go around. These days, I have been working hard, but not relaxing enough. So dating for married you can help divert me from my career activities.While I am in agreement with a few of those mythic goddesses who swore off marriage , I cannot claim to be chaste like Diana the Hunter. Nor would I care to be for that matter. That's my cagey way of saying I'm up for romance. If you think my company is up your alley, send an email and provide a picture of yourself, as turnabout is fair play. Cheers, Carmen
Beautiful and fun to be with 30yr (North Brunswick, 8902, NJ )
Hi, this is the unusual part, describing myself while trying to be humble. I'm professional but fun to be with, easygoing but responsible, healthy, but have some guilty pleasures, and educated but not a snob. I'm fit, and in good shape, 5'8'', SWF, long brown hair and blue eyes. Honesty, loyalty and communication are important to me. I'm looking to meet a SWM, tall, between 28-36, professional, honest, active, educated, and nice looking for dating and possibly more. Is this too much to ask milfs Please send a picture and I will send one. Thanks, have a nice weekend.
Don't Fall in Love: This is the number one rule when dating a married woman. >>Just for S%^ts and grins 31yr (8902, NJ, Middlesex County)
So i am just throwing an ad up to see what kind of responses i will get . Would anyone date someone who is pleasantly plump, NOT huge, but dating for married a size 16, who has a child, but wants someone with no children?just curious ! Let me know your situation and why or why not you would date someone like that, and send a pic!
Seeking Quality Jewish Man, Herpes+ 51yr (North Brunswick, New Jersey )
I am looking for a quality Jewish man who just happens to be herpes+ for an LTR...someone who enjoys music, art, culture, good food. travel, dogs and cats, the outdoors, a good laugh, and doesn't let herpes define him or hold him back. I am Jewish, divorced, no kids, 5-5, red hair, size 6, and don't plan to sit on the side lines and dating for married life pass me by. Lets make the most of the next 50 years!