I have been in a couple relationships that have obviously failed so now I have decided to make a list of what I want in my next relationship. Is that wrong? I want a guy who: -has a stable job -has his own place to live other than with his parents -has his own vehicle -knows where he is going in life -has a sense of humor and can make me laugh -preferably knows how to cook but not a must :) -has some sort of education -is not a raging alcoholic -does not do drugs or smoke! -takes a shower daily -is not obsessed with video and/or computer games -likes girls a little on the thicker side cause I am :) and lastly you must love children because I have a baby who is my world! Ok, so a little about me... I am a 23 year old single mom. I have my own apartment, own car and work almost full time. I like spending time with my baby and my family, going on road trips especially to the beach, shopping, cooking , and cuddling up to a good movie. If you think you match my list and want to know more about me, send me an email and lets start chatting. Hope you have a good three day weekend!
I am currently dating a married woman. I have known her for eight years, but we have just become romantically involved in the last four and a half months. I've known she has not been happy with her marriage for years and wants to end it, but she has not yet done so due to a variety of reasons. I'm certain that she does not love her husband -- I've met him before, and I cannot understand why she's with him at all.>>SBW looking for a friend with benefits situation (Dover, 7801 , Morris County)
SECOND TIME IS A CHARM First off let’s get the important stuff out the way. So that the serious man can reply I am looking for a man that I can have a respectable sexual/friendly relationship with. No boyfriend, No husband just sex and hanging out. You would live your life as a free man but when it comes down to sex you would only answer to me. Lol just playing… But seriously I am looking for just a decided good looking guy who needs to get laid just as much as I do! I really don’t want to sleep with someone who’s going to play games or be deceitful and dishonest; I don’t have time for that. I have heard some horror stories so I just want to make myself clear. DON’T REPLY IF: YOUNGER THAN 26 AND OLDER THAN 36 MARRIED OR HAVE A GIRLFRIEND HAS A WEIRD SEX FETISH A SMOKER A little bit about me: I am in my mid-twenties smart, funny, good looking. I would say I am thick girl but if having some meat on my bones is considered BBW Then so be it. I am social drinker who’s d/d free and doesn’t smoke. Pretty much a girly girl but not high maintenance my time is too valuable for all that. I’m always on the go so in my free time I like to have a good time. You: I ‘m really attracted to tall, well groomed, smart, super funny man. Who are comfortable in their own skin and can keep me on my toes both when it comes to intellect and energy. You can be athlete or husky as long as you package it well. I am equal opportunities meaning it DOESN’T MATTER YOUR ETHNIC BACKGROUND. If you’re interested send me an e-mail telling me a little bit about yourself. PLEASE INCLUDE A PICTURE in return if I am interested I’ll send you a full picture of me. Thanks
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
Actually, looking for cool sperm donor, that I can actually know and like. Basics-- Totally financially and career happy woman, never married, no kids. Dont want the marriage, really want the kids. Ive looked into anonymous medical insemination, but am thinking its unfair not to be able to tell my child about their father. Not looking for money or child support, just wish I had a good enough friend to 'drop off their cup' that I trusted enough to want to procreate with. No offense, most of the guys Ive known arent the ones I want to share 50% of my kids dna. Perhaps thought there was someone who was in a similar situation, possibly focused on career life and realized the parent years were quickly going away. About me: Early 30's, tall thick and dark. Funny smart, do very well on my own. Crazy sports fan, love most sports and follow them more than a lot of girls. Music fan, love it all from mostly country to Lil Wayne. Not looking to get laid, this would be a medical decision, with me paying for your getting checked out first . Guess it just crossed my mind that as opposed to getting knocked up by a stranger labeled ''#46079-CDT'' it would maybe be nice to know the person instead. Not needing you to babysit or offer assistance once baby is born, but perhaps there's a guy out there who would like to see his child born? Ideal situation would be to remain friends through out, at least enough to know who you are. Not too picky on appearance, but being an olive skinned brunette, it'd be nice if your coloring was somewhat similar so it could at least resemble me. Thats all... just a very loving girl whos the greatest mother, just without a child.
three addictions: coffee, running, reggaetón 21yr (Dover, New Jersey )
Dear person who is reading this post, Hi! I am 21, a Denver native, and interested in meeting new male friends in the area. I've been single for a while, and don't mind it that way, but also wouldn't mind a relationship with someone new... Let me just say before you read any further, my ideal first time meeting someone looks like a casual coffee or lunch or walk downtown, if your ideal first date involves getting an easy lay, please continue on to the other posts, I am not your girl. Me: just finished junior year of college, studying education and social work, environmental issues want to be a teacher, elementary or middle school, inner-city enjoy exercise enjoy dancing wildly to reggaeton in my kitchen, not entirely opposed to dancing in public or with other people love anything outdoors or involving mountains speak spanish, like meeting people different from me and from other cultures & places drug of choice = coffee, other drugs = not into them, I drink socially I like most all music from rap to bluegrass I am just as happy spending time at home cooking, reading, watching movies, as I am going out and having a good time. Have spent more time in dance clubs in Mexico than here, would love to explore some new dance venues here in Denver. You: Drug-free, casual drinker or non-drinker age 19-24ish appearance doesn't matter, valuing a healthy body does matter, big plus if you enjoy getting exercise college or no college, doesn't matter as long as you have goals and a sense of purpose SENSE OF HUMOR! Non-judgmental, willing to be ridiculous with me if need be enjoy the outdoors If you've read this far and are interested, email me with your favorite musical artist in the headline and tell me a little about you! My work starts full time june 16th and I'll only be around evenings and weekends after that, but I'm mostly free until then, so let's get to know each other... ciao!
Don't Click if You're Looking for 'Normal' 32yr (7801, Dover, New Jersey)
I hear that a lot. Funny thing is...the normalcy most people are looking for is based on conditioning and other people's views versus the individual's own experience and mindset. So, if you're stuck in the cycle of what your parents taught you or what your friends gawk at or what your pastor says is the appropriate way to live ... this ad is not for you but thanks for stopping by. If you're still there, I would like to introduce myself. My name is Shana . I am a plus-sized , predominantly African American, earth spiritualist , all-genre music-loving , avid reading , expanded boundary thinking, movie-loving, child-rearing , knowledge-seeking, traveling, tradition accepting yet exploring and challenging woman. To know what is unique about me, and classifies me as 'not' normal, requires a serious interest in conversing and exploring with me. I can tell you that I stand out because I listen to rock all day, every day, I embrace non-mainstream/alternative lifestyles/activities, I'm openly sexually mature and uninhibited, I embrace more non-traditional relationship types, I goth it out some days, I'm somewhat detached from some things, and I don't care for barbecue, chicken on the bone, or pork on a regularly basis. lol* What do I love? I love to debate about various topics, though, it's hard finding people who don't take it to heart. I love to sing and dance. I love staring at the night sky. I love water. I love to create. I love to be individual. I love learning. I love helping people see aspects of a situation they traditionally wouldn't see. I love kissing. I love music. I love knowing I made a difference in my child's life. I love seeing people happy. I love exploring sensual things. I love to keep a clean house. I love spontaneity. What I seek? Let's face it...we all have our specifics of what we want physically. We also have a general idea of the personality traits we desire. However, I am a firm believer that most people have created a blueprint of an individual they 'believe' works for them but have yet to truly explore themselves enough to truly know. I've dated all types by just allowing the moment to take hold. You'd be surprised what you discover about what really works for you that way. With that said, as long as the package has the desire and the will to continuously progress, I'm open. I do have some mandatories, though. 1) No smoking 2) Good oral hygiene 3) Bath your balls, buttcrack, underarms at least every two days 4) Done with having children 5) Desire and will to be physically active 6) Be mature 7) Be attractive. 8) Be Self Sufficient *Aside from that, I enjoy humor but I'm more of a dry wit/sarcastic person or considerably retarded depending on the situation. A diverse and open way of thinking is a positive. Oh...I love tattoos and piercings. I enjoy creative types. Musicians are so ... . I also love nerds, dorks, hippies, weirdos, and philosophical types. Hell, just have varied personality. :P Relationship Type? I am open at this point. I attend school online, I travel for work , I have a teenager living with me, and I have family all over so, if you can't tell, I do my best to stay busy. If you're willing to keep up...we can be whatever. However, I must tell you that I am a woman who likes my space and I like the lines of communication to be very clear dating for married of what we decide to do. Okay...I've shared enough to either make you love me or hate me. Either way...feel free to send me a message.
Thick Black Gurl looking for a handsome guy 19yr (Dover, New Jersey )
Hey im looking for a nice guy that knows how to treat a gurl and has a sence of humor........... i am 5'7 thick not big/fat and and looking for a friend mainly to hang out and talk to ....if your interested send a picture and youll get one back... Im just looking for friends to hang out with text me && describe yourself **four milfs seven two eight five eight three eight one**PLEASE NO PIC NO REPLY!!!......NO CALLS i want guy age 19-30 preferably... to get some of the information out from now once again im 19 from bk ny...i am mature with a good head on my shoulders, im in college i do have a car and dont mind driving, im not a gold digger i dontlook for money,please dont write if your looking for naked pics or sex please
Dating a married man is absolutely verboten, at least this was what our mother used to say, but then she was always a religious woman>>A little extra, but very cute 25yr (Dover, 7801, NJ )
I am a small BBW , but I work out and have come a long way and intend to keep at it. Not trying to be skinny though, I love curves and you should too. I have a cute face, nice eyes and a great smile . Mainly mexican with a little spanish in my blood. I have my own car, a good job and no kids. What I want is someone who will start out as a friend and if the chemistry is there maybe lead to a LTR. I am very attracted to black men who are athletic or average built, but it isn't something set in stone so don't let that stop you from responding. I am not the type to rush into a relationship and building a good friendship first is very important to me. I prefer someone between 21 and 30, 5'7'' or taller average to athletic with a good head on his shoulders and who knows how to treat a lady. I prefer someone who has a car. I am not really looking for a FWB so don't respond if that's all you want. I can't post a face pic because of my job, honestly but I have plenty to share including a myspace and facebook account. Send a pic if you want a response. I will probably not respond to emails without one since responses with a pic will be considered first. So if you think you are dating for married I'm looking for hope to hear from you.
re: dating for married swimming partner (7801, NJ, Morris County)
I can't swim but I can play pool.