Anyone with integrity and self-respect who finds themself between about 40 and 60 will likely admit that he or she is a fixer-upper. Your bad knees, your divorce, your teenager who won't talk to you, your business that failed, the scar from your operation. I certainly am. I am a Buddhist. It helps with things; it helps with accepting the unacceptable and just noticing it, not judging. I'm looking for a LTR, but wait, let's back that up to a friendship of long duration with a gentleman - an intellectual and/or educated gentleman with an open heart and a generous spirit. That doesn't mean I want your money - I don't - no one will ever care about my own money like I do, and that's what I'm busy with. I have peaked in one career and am going uphill in my second one, and won't be content til I reach the apex of my skills there. I am independent. I'm shy. Are you? I'm a confident public speaker, I am a courageous person, I speak up whenever needed and don't hesitate, but still, I'm shy. Probably a little bruised up from some drama/sturm und drang in my life. The second shoe isn't going to drop on that - it's way over and it's time for me to have fun, sail on a bay, bird-watch, listen to waves, cook chard and walnuts, share an ice cream with you. It's time to laugh til our ribs hurt and make love as if the world was going to end in the morning. It's time to give back to our communities, to people who have lost their jobs, to mentor kids in school, to find a way, even if all we have is to go on, to make life a little sweeter for someone bereft of sweetness, even a stranger. I have flaws. Do you? God in heaven, I hope so. How boring if you didn't. I'm working on areas of my life. Are you? I've put in lots of time to get to some degree of maturity and nonviolent communication. And muscle mass. And aerobic fitness. But forget all that earnest stuff. Just let me know your beating heart is out there and that there's some vibration between what I've described and how you're feeling. Vibrancy. Aliveness. Sensuality. Magic. Joy. If not now, then soon.
I am currently dating a married woman. I have known her for eight years, but we have just become romantically involved in the last four and a half months. I've known she has not been happy with her marriage for years and wants to end it, but she has not yet done so due to a variety of reasons. I'm certain that she does not love her husband -- I've met him before, and I cannot understand why she's with him at all. >><3 toes in the sand 25yr (Norwalk, Connecticut , The Berkshires Area)
So, as all of you reading this, I am curious to see what C.L has to offer and maybe, hopefully find a companion that ideally can turn into a realtionship. But the things people post out there, really some guys are hillarious. Those shirtless pictures are actually pretty creepy if I'd say. I'm 5'8, tan, brown eyes. Have a career, I am college educated, and I know what I want. I have my own apartment, car..etc. DRAMA FREE. being outside being inside , trying new things and exploring new areas. I'm a very positive and happy person. I don't waste my time on negativity. :-) I love being a girly girl, but love watching sports and hanging with the guys. I love concerts, summer, the beach. etc etc I love tattoos, although I wish I had more, but I am very picky about what I want and I want to design it myself. I moved down here about 2 months ago, and now that Im all settled, I need to get out and enjoy what SD has to offer with a fun, confident and positive, guy. I am looking for a guy who has an awesome personality. Funny, open minded outgoing. confident, and that challenges me. Has his own opinions, but open to other views. Has some kind of career. or job. Likes exploring new places, fun, outdoorsy. manly, but sweet deep down inside. I am not looking for a one night stand. ......with kids or divorced is ok.. but NO DRAMA. Honest and NO SHIRTLESS PICTURES PLEASE. ..lol pref. 25-30 yrs old.. If you are interested in gettin to know more about me, send me a message with your picture and your favorite icecream flavor on the SUBJECT line so I know that you are real. pic 4 pic <3
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
Looking for a goodlloking single suit and tie type that lives alone and hates cleaning his place. If this is you....then we should talk. I'm not looking for anything sexual. I just enjoy cleaning, doing laundry, picking up drop off dry cleaning and shining shoes for straight guys. Hit me up let's talk about it. Services free of course. Legit and real offer. 25m here just love to clean for straight guys.
Sk partner to learn ballroom dance 53yr (Norwalk, 0685 , Fairfield County)
When a man and a woman dance a slow dance together it's as if all the swirling energies in the Universe stop briefly and rest on the quality of appreciation. I would like to learn the beautiful skill of ballroom. If you would also, let's consider eachother for partnering and practice. No photos, just be over 5'7'' and able to commit for a few months of lessons. I work in downtown manhattan.
for a friend 20yr (6851, Norwalk, Connecticut)
ok! let me start off by saying i am doing this for my best friend and she dose not know about this, so let me tell you a lil bit about her her name is krystal shes 20 will be 21 in july, she is out going but shy at 1st and when she warms up to you its all good from there she is mixed but dosent act like it, peppole say we should switch skin lol, the reson iam doing this is becuz she dose dating for married have that good of luck finding guys i think shes too picky and then guys she likes shes not really there type, shes a bigger girl and like i said she acts more like a white girl so i think it scares them a lil but when u git to know here more she is really a nice loving FUN girl and i want here to be happy some iam puting some pics up and if you like them and what to know more go ahead and e-mail me and we can go from there.........this is how it will happend you e-mail me i talk to you git a fell for you tell you a lil about her send a pic of coures and if i think you would like her and her like you i will show here what you look like and you guys can go from there shes not really in to black guys and you can ask me n e thing and i will tell it like it is, see its better like this no fake shitlol....... thank you for your time hope it all works out theres one of me and her and the rest just her
black beauty seeks.... milfs 06854, CT , The Berkshires Area)
A handsome young tall male for friendships and more...race is no issue.. ages 30-45 clean fun outgoing and clean I'm 32 years old I stand 5'6 and weigh 110lbs very attractive fun and spontaneous Please include pic
Dating a married man is absolutely verboten, at least this was what our mother used to say, but then she was always a religious woman >>Hoping to find my TALL handsome latin man! 30yr (Norwalk, Connecticut , The Berkshires Area)
First post here, not desperate but I know what I am looking for hoping to find him here. I love tall men preferably of latin decent, everyone likes different things. Just hanging out, going to movies and such ok with, im very outgoing and fun. Will tell more about myself when we meet! I am asking to attach pic for pic But I am a white girl 5'2 120 lbs blue eyes. heres half one dating for married
Why Is It So Hard for A SBF to find A SWM? 30yr (6851, Norwalk, CT, Fairfield County)
So, I'm laying here thinking, why is it so difficult for a sexy African American female to meet a handsome Caucasian male? Is it because of society? Or is it that you guys are intimidated? Whatever the case is, I want to meet you!!! My best relationship was with a white man, but things didn't work out because his career called for him to leave and NYC and I wasn't ready to dating for married so...I'm giving this a try. A little about me... 5'9... Dark Skinned... Long Dark Brown Hair... Athletic Build...modelesque Educated... Job... Very Social... African... D/D Free... Non-Smoker About you... Just be outgoing, sane, Disease and Drug Free, over 5'11 , athletic build, and MUST reply with a picture ...and the list can go on...but let's talk... PL I'm in for the night and would like to talk to you!