I am the opposite of submissive - but in private I may be submissive to you, if you are the “right man” who possesses ALL the qualities I admire that would INSPIRE me to surrender and who is worthy of my devotion and worship. I do love to play in a variety of ways, many say my nature is difficult but complex is more apropos, so if you are game for resistance play, if you like the give and take of incredible power and energy exchange scenarios, if you like to laugh, if you can best me intellectually and present terms and conditions I cannot refuse and of course you are what I want and you are up for a very exciting challenge, then do write me some things that makes me say WOW and proves you are a patient man willing to earn my friendship, trust and admiration. For me trust is after all, something that is earned and should not be freely given to strangers and becoming friends will take some mutual effort from both parties involved but a trusting friendship is what I desire and if I am willing to put the effort and work into achieving that, then so should you be. It seems many men say they accept my challenge of switching me over and pick up the gauntlet I cast down but then they run away with it. If only I can find the ''right'' man with the courage, brains, heart, soul, brawn and noble nature to handle me I would be so thrilled and willing to offer what ever thrills him. Men write to me saying that they meet my criteria when in fact they don’t and it is a tiresome game of endless emails and questions that result in failures and not the kind of game I want to play. I am legitimately seeking someone very special and unique, just like me, so if you cannot match me well, then there is no justifiable reason for you to respond to this post. Alas, I am still seeking that one quality gentleman who is secure with his ego and masculinity, a true Emperor among men who will in public keep me by his side as his Empress but in private will keep me as he so desires. A Master of his life and ultimately mine who is a skilled negotiator, communicative, intellectual, inspirational, imaginative, protective, nurturing, safe and sane, passionate, sensual, honorable, successful, affluent, somewhat kinky for a seriously committed all encompassing long term relationship that eventually includes play as a Dominant couple with ''submissives'' be they single or a couple. Let me be extremely clear here, I am NOT interested in anyone who is married, separated, or attached. I am NOT seeking a no strings attached intimate encounter, anonymous swinging, anything discreet, a friends with benefits situation, an occasional get together, only a d/s session or any midweek daytime dates. If you cannot speak with me in the evening and then meet me for an evening date on the weekend, I am not interested in any alternatives. The following criteria listed is NOT NEGOTIABLE, as there are NO EXCEPTIONS: You must be totally masculine and heterosexual and here is a revelation, if you are into cross dressing and like to be feminized then you are not what I am seeking. You must be single and unattached, unencumbered, and untangled emotionally with other women and believe me when I say if I am betrayed in this manner, I will get even. I despise cheaters and liars. You must be at least 5'9'' or taller, prefer 185lbs or heavier, White, cultured, classy, CHILDLESS and that means without any offspring, so spare me that your children are grown as I am so NOT interested in hearing about your life. I have discovered that in this world of personal ads one must have a great sense of humor and not take yourself or what is said so seriously and that was a hard lesson to learn. You must live alone and be able to have me over for fun sleep-overs and you must be a gracious host. You must definitely be an affluent clean-cut college educated successful professional, who is circumcised , functional without meds, reasonably endowed, orally inclined and totally shaved in the pubic region or open to it or at the least really well groomed and in your 40's or maybe a very well preserved 50's and definitely have a car and be free and available in the evenings and on the weekends and live in Manhattan, Queens, Brooklyn or Nassau. I am not into misogynistic men or anything psychotic but rather safe, sane and consensual adult activities. I think I would thrive best with a man who is incredibly sensual, seductive, who likes to tease and is very, very playful but who has a firm, decisive and take-charge persona and who will give me the loving erotic discipline I need, which I never had, when I am a naughty little girl, which it seems I am most of the time. Me, I am a White, extremely confident alpha fem, non-vanilla, heterosexual, single, not married, unattached, educated on the graduate level, live alone, drive, childless, orally inclined, shaved in the pubic region, stand 5'5'', average shape, classy, definitely sassy, eclectic interests, have a great sense of humor, am affectionate, emotional, loyal, fun, spunky, defiant, rebellious, non-conformist, eccentric, erotic, seductive, passionate and sensual and am looking to make a legitimate connection with a quality gentleman who matches me well and is seeking the same sort of very serious, substantial, on-going and long lasting relationship. An extremely well written, thought provoking, detailed response that shows we are a good match and want the same things and a mandatory picture, preferably with your nice smile and twinkling eyes, may then be exchanged for mine. Just a note, any naked pictures will automatically guarantee that your response will be deleted. If what I posted here resonates the very foundations of your being and we match well, then I await your pleasure but if you have any apprehension from the start of things, save us both a headache, as insecure men and cowards afraid to step into reality will get no where with me. If you do respond to this post, I will ask you but one simple yet complex question, very similar to my nature - ''Do you in fact meet all the criteria that is listed in this post and if you do please elaborate with the specifics?'' - If you cannot answer this in the affirmative with descriptive details, then please save us both the time and effort, as I am in all sincerity trying to find a match that matches me best and anything less will just not suffice. Frankly, anything else, that is not what I desire, I am really not interested in reading. Thank-you in advance for reading my post and may I extend my best wishes that we all find whatever and whomever makes our hearts soar.
Before we get into where to look, you may be wondering why dating married women is better than, for instance, single women. Simple. Married women have less men approaching them and, unlike single women, they all want casual encounters without any commitment. >>is there any good guys out there?? 24yr (Naugatuck, 6770, CT , New England)
im 24 in orlamdo looking to meet someone that kool and want to do things with me ok thanks
Date married ladies/guys in your neighbourhood.
i am 22, i am fun and out going. i like all kinds of music. i love comedies and scary movies the most... but can def enjoy a action movie with ya! im lookin for someone 21-28... i have values.. you can say im a lil southern bell with a crazy side ;) i just like to have fun and sometimes be the life of the party lol i dont party too often but when i do its always fun.. so basically im lookin for someone like me but not.. lol ne ways if your interested reply back with *hip hop hobo* lmao... dont ask ;) -Tiffany
Thick curvey blonde - w4m 25yr (6770, Naugatuck, CT, New Haven County)
quad riding, movies, wine tasting, darts, learning to shoot, cuddling up next to you and we might even find some naughtiness to get ourselves into.. That person you want to spend time with and see where it leads, looking for a fulltime playmate
Remain alert, and have a safe day 25yr (Naugatuck, Connecticut , New dating for married young black woman, looking to meet a guy for whatever the chemistry allows, friendship, dating, etc. get back, I like all types. just be decent
Real Thing 28yr (6770, CT, New Haven County)
Hello, I am a 28 Hispanic female, white skin, brown eyes and hair, stand about 5'9''-5'10'' and yes I am a bbw. I believe I am the real thing cause I hate the drama and the game that men and women play with each other. I believe in having a friendship with a man before love can even play a part in a health relationship. I am a down to earth woman with very strong feelings in what i believe in towards life and faith. I love nature and being outside on the front porch talking and BS with family and friends. Playing or watching sports is always a highlight of my day, as well as playing games on the computer or maybe a broad game. A night with family or friend for a good round of poker and/or BBQ. Maybe heading to the river or milfs just out of the blue is a great way to spend laughing and playing. I do think of myself as a fun, great adtitude, and have a good head on my shoulders. Looking for someone who is real and the same way I am. I am telling who ever replys to this I DO NOT PLAY GAMES AND I HATE DRAMA!!!
Dating a married man is absolutely verboten, at least this was what our mother used to say, but then she was always a religious woman >>Coffee or tea. (6770, Naugatuck, Connecticut)
If anyone is interested in meeting. Not sure what to put, except this is an ad to possibly go for coffee, tea, movies etc. etc. Send your face photos, age, otherwise no idea who you are. Someone respectful, kind, nice. I'm looking for a friend more than anything. Not a male that's selfish, hurtful, evil, conniving, mean-spirited, nuts, or not single / enjoys dating as a dating for married If you want, we can set up a place in east bay this weekend and talk in person. I'm Asian, college educ. Maybe you have ideas for outdoor activities. My age range might be approximately 28-38, someone educated, kind, somewhat sane, less of a temperament. TTYL.
Indie Music Lover?? (Naugatuck, 6770 , New Haven County)
Ill keep this short and simple. I see *a lot* of shows and the truth of the matter is -- while my friends make great company when theyre out with me -- often times I feel it'd be nice if it were someone that were more than a friend. Perhaps a love interest, a date, etc. Its sometimes painful to go to a show alone when you realize its all couples surrounding you. I will say, I do well enough on my own when going to shows alone as Im friendly, out going and can easily hold up my own end of a conversation but its nice to have someone there with you so you dont feel like youre hitting on every guy just trying to have a conversation. So if youre into indie music, and maybe you go to a lot of shows alone or with friends but are looking for something a bit more, or maybe you just got tired of going to shows alone so stopped going -- then definitely drop me a line. next shows: The National, PiL, Trashcan Sinatras, Innerparty System and way too many more to name. A dating for married things about me: in my 30s, long red hair, thin/avg, just moved to Astoria, work in midtown, single and Jewish.